Back to Back Date Night

How to Passionately Pursue the Best for the Other Person in Your Relationship

What would it look like to put the interests of your loved one above your own? How could fighting for one another keep you from fighting with one another? If your relationship is going to thrive, you need to move from being a critic to a cheerleader for your significant other. Getting “back to back” has the ability to transform your relationship and help you take a step closer.

What’s back to back? Find out below.

Before you get started, take steps to make the most of this in-home date night:


Treat date night at home with the same intentionality as a night out – this means putting away your phone, reducing distractions, and focusing on each other


Have kids? Give them an early dinner, put them to bed early, or give them an alternative activity such as a movie or game to keep them busy. Click here for some other ideas.


Be flexible! Date night at home might be different than your usual routine. Don’t let a few mishaps or small roadblocks get in the way of having a great time.

Kick Off Your Date By Getting Cozy & Watching This Video Together

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Popcorn Questions

What’s the most vivid dream you ever had?

If you started a charity, what cause would it benefit?

If you got a full-ride college scholarship right now, what would you study?

What piece of technology do you wish didn’t exist?

What sport would you most want to play professionally?

What would the title of your autobiography be?

If you had to change your name, what would you change it to?

How would you live differently if you became famous?

What are you most qualified to teach others how to do?

If you had a talk show, who would your first three guests be?


Spend a few minutes learning about the hopes, dreams, and needs of your partner. You can’t fight for someone when you don’t know what they need!

What are your top five bucket list items? If you could choose one of those to complete this year, which would you pick?

If you could do anything for a career regardless of the money, what would it be and why?

What is something that you get really excited or passionate about that might surprise me or even yourself?

What are your dreams for your family? (Who do you want our kids to become, where do you hope to live someday, what do you want to be said of you at your funeral?)

Fill in the blank: One way you could serve me better is to .

Dare You

Get back to back, literally. Find a spot where you can sit down and lean on one another. Share three strengths or passions you see hardwired in your significant other. If you are comfortable, pray for one another out loud.

Wrap Up

We hope you enjoyed your date night!

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