Great American Date Night Kit
Pursue Connection and Intentional Time Together
Celebrate America's 250th anniversary by spending quality time with your partner, building connection, growing in gratitude, and reflecting on what kind of legacy you want to live out. This kit can take the planning and guesswork out of an intentional day of celebration for the freedoms we enjoy in America, in our relationships, and in a loving God.
Kick Off Your Day in Song!
Start the day off on a fun note by taking turns naming patriotic songs. These can be anything from “All-American” bands to songs that include the words America, patriotic, stars & stripes, eagle, or even apple pie! Then, turn on a patriotic playlist. Spotify and Apple Music have several great ones! How many on the playlist did you guess? Keep this playlist going for the rest of your date!
Make a Festive Treat!
Kick up your snack or dinner a notch by making it patriotic! These All-American recipes can add some red, white, and bliss to your dinner and dessert plans.
Did you know that the hamburger is the most popular food in America? This Food Network recipe for a classic All-American burger includes a fry sauce that is sure to be a hit!
What’s more American than apple pie? You don’t have to fuss over a perfect crust, though, with this easy twist on a classic. Pastry & Beyond gives instructions for delicious Apple Pie Bars!
Take a Tour!
Seeing American monuments and museum artifacts can help you identify with national ideals and connect with history. They can also offer spaces for reflection on the nation's past, present, and future. Take a tour of a local museum or monument. Don't have any in your area, or just want to spend a quiet evening at home? No problem! Several National sites offer virtual tours! Choose one that seems the most interesting to you both and take a digital look around!
During or after your visit, talk through these discussion questions together.
Quiz Time!
How much do you know about American history? It's time to find out! This fun, but spicy version can elevate your game to be as warm as a bonfire on a hot July night!
Build Your Past, Present, and Future Together.
How much history do you have together? How much future are you planning together? This fun personal history quiz can help you grow in connection and test your knowledge of each other's past and present, as well as your shared future.
Live with Legacy in Mind.
As our nation celebrates 250 years, today is a chance to celebrate with gratitude and reflect on the national legacy we have received. Every generation helps shape the future. That is true for a nation, for the church, and for our families. So, as you enjoy this day together, consider the legacy you are building in your home. What kind of values, faith, love, and strength do you want to pass on? This vision statement activity encourages discussion of shared values and future aspirations so that you can intentionally live out the legacy you wish to leave.
Keep Building Your Legacy
Raise a glass! Wind down your evening with a little celebration of our country and your relationship. Each of you should toast to 1. One thing you're grateful for, and 2. One thing you're hopeful about for your shared future.
Before the night ends, choose one small thing you want to do in the next month to keep investing in your family. Not necessarily grand gestures, just small, repeatable things that keep your family relationships your priority. It could be something like:
- Plan one intentional date night
- Start a new shared habit
- Do a service project together
- Make up a new tradition
- Create a new rhythm to connect
Regular partner connection fosters healthy communication and builds trust. Make sure to be intentional and have fun together!
Pray for Our Country
Commit to praying together for our country this week. Pray for our leaders, our citizens, and for your eyes to be opened to what makes our country great.
